Each self-inflicted death where the victim had endured domestic violence must be considered a possible murder case, according to demands from advocates who seek to make perpetrators responsible for the devastating impact of their actions.
This move is necessary because law enforcement are failing to bring perpetrators to justice in cases of self-inflicted death following family violence.
“In case after case, there is systemic and structural failure, particularly within the legal system, to examine these fatalities with the seriousness they warrant,” remarked a co-director of a campaign group at a significant meeting in Westminster earlier this week.
The assembly, organized by a organization running a “Self-Inflicted Death is Murder” campaign to advocate for reform in the criminal justice system, brought together families who had lost loved ones to suicide after domestic abuse.
Sharon Holland experienced the death of her child her 23-year-old daughter in March 2023. Before her death, the young woman had reported her former partner to police, providing a two-hour video interview as proof about his conduct.
After her death, the individual was found guilty of coercive and controlling behavior and imprisoned for 41 months. He was later jailed for an additional term after a another victim stepped up to disclose that she had been in a harmful partnership with him.
After Chloe’s death, the mother chose to advocate for a legal change to bring perpetrators accountable; however she then discovered that regulations were already in place, they just weren’t often being used to secure prosecutions.
“I decided it wasn’t a fresh legislation I required as current statutes were already there, and after finding out how much my child had been failed previous to her death by the police and many other agencies, they needed to do their job properly, and things required reform,” she explained.
“More than four dozen relatives have found me and only four of us have had a guilty verdict,” she added. “I was so shocked to see such a large number who have been fighting the police and prosecution service for years and receiving no resolution for their child or brother or sister and didn’t have a voice in case it impacted investigations that were not progressing.”
Saskia Lightburn Richie’s daughter her 30-year-old daughter passed away in May 2017, in what she called “the final act of violence” in a prolonged pattern of mistreatment.
“Hannah was vibrant, she was loving,” she stated. “She had great potential, and she was an exceptional, deeply devoted mum to her two children, and she died by suicide after two years in a partnership where she was systematically destroyed by her companion,” she said.
“She was physically beaten, she was mentally tormented, she was controlled and dismantled piece by piece until she was unable to envision a way forward. The man who caused this walked free, because we call it suicide, we close the file and we proceed.
“But I could not move on,” she remarked, “and I have not managed to let go. In truth, she did not merely take her own life. She was killed. She was killed slowly and deliberately over a two year period, and when I went to the police, when I pleaded with them to investigate what he had done to her, I was informed that there was no action that they were able to take.
“No inquiry was conducted into her passing. The domestic violence fatality analysis, which I had to fight for, took five years and had no impact. A lengthy coroner’s hearing found death by suicide, notwithstanding substantial proof over a very traumatic multi-day session of domestic abuse and failings by various agencies.”
The mother informed the gathering that for eight years she has “been fighting a system that refuses to see what is right in front of it”.
She said the self-inflicted death is murder movement was critical “because when someone dies by suicide after they’ve suffered domestic abuse, we have to investigate it for what it truly represents, which is homicide.
“We need to apply the laws we already possess properly and it is not occurring at the present, and we need to make perpetrators responsible for pushing their targets to suicide.
“We have the laws. We need the will, we need police to conduct thorough inquiries. We need the prosecution authority to prosecute. We need judges to understand that verbal abuse and manipulation can kill just as much as physical force and arms.”
At a follow-up gathering in the House of Commons, led by a opposition politician, and attended by the government official, the bereaved relatives again told their stories.
A junior minister informed the assembly: “Such fatalities are often dismissed as if they were their own choice, they chose to do this, when, reality, these were the result of in fact, another person’s abuse, and these are not rare incidents.”
“The legal system is flawed, we are aware,” she stated. “Especially around murder or manslaughter, it is piecemeal. It’s not written in statute regardless, it has been shaped with traditional legal customs for centuries, and it is outdated, honestly, given the society we inhabit today.
“I will not claim that it’s going to be easy to resolve. It is extremely complicated and challenging, especially when you look at the issue of murder, but we acknowledge that it requires examination.”
A spokesperson for the prosecution service said: “Family violence is a heinous crime and our legal officers are actively advised to evaluate murder and manslaughter charges in suicide cases where there is a established background of domestic abuse or other manipulative conduct.
“We have previously charged a number of defendants for causing the death of a partner they mistreated, encompassing in cases which are currently active.
“We are also working with law enforcement and other stakeholders to guarantee these types of crimes are clearly recognized – so that we can hold offenders to justice for the complete scope of their wrongdoings.”
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